This book was a definite eye opener, in the best possible way. It's so refreshing when someone let's you into their personal life journey and it resonates so much with your own soul. Humor, realness and sexuality are my feel goods in life and Cooper has hit every button. In life we are set up with to many standards of what life should look like and how we should act, Cooper Beckett challenges that. I appreciate the thoughtfulness he puts into his words and his actions towards non monogamy. This book was a definite life game changer for me. I cant stop thinking back about it!