I do education and support in the polyamorous community and while this is not strictly a polyamory focused book there is enough in here for it to be one of the books I suggest most often for newcomers. Cooper is honest, blunt, and revealing. It is super entertaining and if you are one that is capable of learning from the mistakes of others, this book if for you. :) Or even if you just want a glimpse into a world that is foreign to you. Cooper makes it super accessible.